Happy Birthday Oliver

Dear Oliver,

Happy Birthday! Congratulations on turning 18 years old today.

I don't know what you have been told, but my name is Stuart and I believe I may be your biological father - and I would very much like to get to know you.

I'm under the impression you live in Spain? I live in England, so it's not going to be straightforward for us - but if/when you want to talk to me I'm sure we can find a way.

You have my email address and phone number now so any time you want to talk feel free to get in touch.

I am on the road a lot and the number below is not my work phone, so if you don't get through initially I'll do my best to get back to you as soon as I can.

I hope you have a fantastic day and enjoy this milestone.

Yours Sincerely,

Stu 

This letter is part of the 'Oliver Jack Musto - What's the Story?' Series

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